There are a few key things to look for when trying to determine if she is the right girl for you. First and foremost, it is important to find someone who makes you happy. If she brings happiness into your life, then she is worth keeping around. Secondly, it is important to find someone who shares similar interests with you.
now let me be completely clear looks matter to an extent because we all are shallow in one way or another but looks are not everything when it comes to love, especially as we start to age. I once heard a comedian say that after age 40 his idea of attractive is someone with a FICO credit score above 700. But
in all seriousness, if she meets the criteria I listed above and you are physically attracted to her then you have found a unicorn and you should do everything in your power to keep her happy.
If she brings happiness into your life, then she is worth keeping around. also, it is important to find someone who shares at least 1 to 2 similar interests with you. While having a few common interests acts as a launch pad for a budding relationship, having every single thing in common could either be a dream come true or the most boring nightmare ever.
At the end of the day, you want to be with someone who makes you happy and who you are compatible with. Whether or not she is "the one" for you is ultimately up to you, but if she ticks most or all of the boxes on this list then she is definitely worth giving a shot.
In today's world of the overly superficial practice of swiping right and the inconsiderate preaching and practice of side chicks and side dudes, it gets hard it even trust the opposite sex but believe me, he or she is out there, and if you have already found that special person then considers yourself one of the lucky ones.
But if you haven't and you're still looking, here are some things to consider that might help you decide if she is "the one" for you:
She makes you happy
You Feel physically ill when you don't see or hear from her for extended periods
She is loyal and trustworthy
You have the same values
You are physically attracted to her
You want to be the best version of yourself for her
You can be yourself around her without compromise
She loves and accepts you for who you are without trying to change who you are
She is your best friend as well as your girlfriend
You can see yourself with her in the long term
The two of you are compatible
Your family likes her
You get along with her family
She is generally concerned about your wellbeing
Waking up next to her feels like its meant to be
she cooks for you (even if she can't cook)
she doesn't nag or pressure you
she gives your space when you need it
You can see her having your children
You watch her sleep (Not in a creepy way)
she makes you feel like a teenager again
You never get bored around her
you would do anything for her without thinking twice
She is the girl you want to come home to at the end of a long day.
When you picture your future, she's in it. You can't imagine your life without her.
If she's the right girl for you, then you'll know it. You won't need anyone to tell you. It will be obvious. And, it will feel right. You'll be happy and content with her. There won't be any doubt in your mind that she's the one for you.